Future Rock Star

Skylar had his first guitar lesson today. He wants to be a rock star or a professional baseball player.

Rant and Rave

This is rant-n-rave post just to make me feel better. I hate politics! It's everywhere. I'm ranting about soccer right now... My daughter's team that went to the National Cup and now is ranked 4th in the State, no longer exists! This is insane! "SSSC" decided they wanted to stack a U-11 team for the fall, so our 4 girls that were play-ups are gone. We already knew that 4 were leaving because they either couldn't afford the fees and travel, or wanted to pursue other sports. That left 6 girls. Well one demanded to play up on the U-13 team and got her way, and 1 tried out for a Houston team (Albion) and accepted that position. Now there are 4 of us left... One board member said that we could play 8x8 if we could gather a team. hahahaha! Maybe if we'd have known this was coming! I feel screwed! The worst part in all this is that I've heard very different stories from these parents. Somebody is lying! Why? Last I heard from these parents is that they wanted to stay together. Now some didn't want to stay if our coach stayed. We had many conflicts all year, but why didn't these people use that energy to demand that he be asked to step down? He's a nice guy. He might have willingly stepped down for the "team", and if he wouldn't the worse would be that we might lose 1 girl, not the entire team! Whew!!! I think I'm done now. Well not really. I'd like to rant about people that don't return emails or phone calls, but that's for another day...

Here's a small silver lining... My POA that had to be re-done, has been sent to Ethiopia! Maybe now I'll hear about that court date soon!

Still Waiting Impatiently!

Build your own Blingee

Waiting...

We're Back!

In case anyone might have missed my infrequent and boring posts, well this one is for you. We went on vacation! Everyone but our two-year-old Picasso. We flew to Maimi where we boarded a Royal Caribbean ship, then it was off to Puerto Rico, St. Thomas, and St. Maarten. Of course we were miserable during this trip because we have been anxiously awaiting a court date with our agency, we missed our Picasso, and we were eating way too much! I gain weight every time I board one of these ships. I just can't say "no". By the way, I will have to recommend St. Maarten for the prettiest water and best shell-pickin'. It was the perfect place for our family. We love the lazy, laid-back towns where you shop from road-side vendors. My next favorite was St. Thomas. We took the Sky Ride to Paradise point, and that's where the pics were snapped. The view is breath-taking. Also you have to try their signature drink called a "Bushwacker". Yum! Don't get one any where else because you will be disappointed! After that, it was Magen's Bay. I didn't get a picture, but the kids found several starfish in the water! As I said earlier, we were hoping for good news while we were away, so I called our coordinator several times but no news... I wonder what I racked up in International roaming charges? Yikes!

4th in State!!!

Calgon, take me away!

I don't know how I get myself into these things, but I offered to make pillow cases for our soccer girls as a "spirit" gift...



Little did I know, that while I was trying to finish these, my two-year-old was busy making her own art display...

You've Got to be Kidding Me?

Yes, this is deja vous... I found out my Power of Attorney has to be redone. Boo! Hoo! Not just mine though, but all of us within my agency that don't have court dates yet. So, yes, I have to go through the entire notarization-authentication-translation cycle again. This brings back memories of the never-ending Krebb's Cycle in pharmacy school. I wonder what my dear friend Maxine would say about this...

National Cup or Bust!

I just thought we were going to the President's Cup... It turns out that because of our ranking, we got moved up to the highest Cup tournament in South Texas...the US Youth National cup! (FYI: There are several Cup tournaments in Texas ranked in descending order: 1. National Cup, 2. President's Cup, 3. Director's Cup.) We play this Saturday, Sunday, and Monday. Go Spindletop!

Owww!

Got another shot today... Just 2 more and I'm done!

Village of Hope

These are some pictures I got from Kim, a fellow Hope mother, that she took while she was picking up her children.

Happy Mother's Day!

This is my Mother's Day present to myself from Junkposse. I bought one for my husband's birthday last week that doesn't have the heart cut out. She will engrave it for free. There's a link to the store on the right side of my blog.




My replies to Words of Wisdom on Being a Mother:

1. Somebody said that it takes six weeks to return to normal after having a baby. That somebody doesn't know that once your a mother, "normal" is history!

2. Somebody said that being a mother is boring... That somebody never rode in a car that was driven by a teenager with a learner's permit!

3. Somebody said that if you are a good mother, your child will turn out good. That somebdy thinks a child comes with directions and a guarantee!

4. Somebody said that good mothers never raise their voices. That somebody hasn't had a two-year-old color with Sharpies on the white cabinets!

5. Somebody said that you didn't need an education to be a mother. That somebody never helped her fourth-grader with her math homework!


6. Somebody said you can find all the answers in a book. That somebody never had a child stuff beans up his nose, or popcorn kernels in his ears!


7.Somebody said labor is the hardest part of being a mother. That somebody never watched her "baby" get on the bus for her first day of kindergarten.


8. Somebody said you can't love your adopted child as much as your biological children. That somebody doesn't have adopted children!


9. Somebody said you can't love that sixth child as much as the first one. That somebody doesn't have six children!


10. Somebody said your mother knows you love her, so you don't need to tell her. That somebody isn't a mother!!!

Our Soccer Win

We won our last soccer game, so now we advance to President's Cup State finals! It was a tough game. Wave was super physical as you can see by my slide show. Curran got nailed in the nose with a ball...

Then we rushed home to dress our oldest daughter for her recital...

First Pics From Hawaii

My sister finally sent me pictures of where they are living. What a life!

I'm seeing Pink!

Myspace Glitter Graphics



Today, we accepted the referral of Maritu. She's 8 1/2 months old, weighs 11lb., and comes from Kembata Tembaro region of Ethiopia. Yes, I stated that correctly. She weighs 11 pounds, so as you can guess, she suffers from Marasmus (severe malnutrition). My husband was extremely worried at first, which is just the "doctor" coming out of him, but after I saw Kim G.'s photos/video clips from her trip, I immediately called Kenneth at work and made him look at them. He knew then by the way she followed the camera that she was a little fighter! Oh my heart is filled with God's praises!

I'm always the one to tell people to get their shots. I've chastised people for procrastinating on the shots because Hepatitis A and B shots are a series of shots that take a total of 6 months. Okay, so the truth is that I have been procrastinating too! I had the Hep B shot when I was in pharmacy school, but I still need Hep A, Tdap, Meningococcal, and polio. I went to our local health clinic, but they said that they don't carry Hep A, so all I got was the Tdap booster. The nurse did a great job, but now my arm is starting to feel like I lifted some heavy weights! I'm going to go to the Beaumont Health Department for the other ones next week.

More Pics!

I got to see today that Abeti got his second package from us. I sent an A&M hat and shirt, and some long shorts. I hope he gets to wear them. Curran, my A&M fan, will be so happy.

Who Kidnapped Our Girls?

Here we are in the President's Cup playing a team we can beat, but I swear someone kidnapped our girls and gave us some lazy ones! Eventhough we tied the Zephyrs from College Station 0-0, it felt like a loss!

Off She Goes!

My sister left for Hawaii today...

Finally a Word From Ethiopia

Another exhausting day... I spent the day in a court room with my sister. She has been trying to have her son's father's visitation supervised in Hawaii. That's where they are moving tomorrow. At the temporary hearing a few months ago, the judge granted supervised visitation, but in Tennessee where he lives and by his mother. (This lady has tried to committ suicide 3 times and is also bi-polar!) Today, however, we actually thought that things would be different, but my sister had a crappy lawyer!!! He was so disorganized. He had a court-ordered medical release for this guy since November, but he waited to try and get any medical records until March. So, needless to say, there was only one record gotten and his lawyer tried to argue it because it hadn't been diclosed 2 weeks prior to court. The record showed a positive cocaine test... Well, not sooner that I had gotten home, the phone rang, I learned that my best friend from junior high died. I am extremely saddened by this news...

But I have a silver-lining amist all this saddness. I finally saw a picture of Abeti with his scrapbook. I have no idea if he looked at it, or how he felt. His picture looks like he is scared. I can't wait to hug him and let him know he will be safe. God sent me this news at just the right time! Blessed be Your name!!!

Ethiopian Dinner

Ethiopian cooking is very spicy. In addition to flavoring the food, the spices also help to preserve meat in a country where refrigeration is rare. Berbere is an essential ingredient in Ethiopian cooking. It is a red paste made of spices and herbs. Flavored butter called niter kebbeh is also important. Niter kebbeh is flavored with onions, garlic, ginger and spices. Wat, or stew is an important traditional Ethiopian food. It can be made with chicken, beef, fish, or be vegetarian. It contains paprika and is very spicy. Wat is eaten with injera, an Ethiopian flatbread made from teff. Coffee is also important in Ethiopia.

So, I ordered Ethiopian spices from www.ethiopianspices.com , and Kenneth and I prepared food for my parents, sister, and brother-in-law. It took both of us to prepare all the food. It wasn't easy... We cooked Gomen which are collard greens, Sega Wot which is a red beef stew, Kit Wot which is a red lentil stew, and Shiro which is powdered chick peas that end up with the consistancy of refried beans. I can't believe everyone ate! I'm not always that brave to try new things. I think I will definitely become a vegetarian in Ethiopia. I'm extremely picky with my meats...

Weekends at the Wilgers'

Saturday exhausted me! First, I drove to my daughter's soccer game. After we got stomped 5-0, I made it just in time to see my son's baseball game. They also got whipped 14-0. Ouch!!! After a quick hours rest at home where I caught up on email, our family watched Mark Chesnutt, Tracy Byrd, and Zona Jones on Crockett Street in Beaumont. You'd think that it would all be over then, but no, my children got to ride to a crawfish boil on Mark Chesnutt's bus with his boys. They are cute! (That is per my girls!) The funny thing is that Curran got clostraphobic, and refused to ride on the bus, so we stopped at Sonic because her and I don't eat those nasty creatures! Well, we were wondering if our kids would ever make it to the party, but we soon learned when they showed up that the driver took a wrong turn and ended up in a not-so-great- area!!! One of Mark's boys said that Curran was lucky because she got to go to Sonic... LOL!

Finally an Answer

I finally got the answer I've been searching for. I don't know why I kept asking, since I felt like I knew all along. Abeti speaks Oromo. I just thought I had one language hurdle to jump over, but now it's two. I guess for my little man it's even worse because it will be three for him. I hope someone at Hope's place can communicate with him. My heart aches wondering how scared he must be. Well, the good thing I guess is that in his scrapbook that I sent, I had attempted to write some words in Amharic so he'd know who the people in the pictures were, but it's so hard that I was unsure what I had really written. So, if he can't read it anyway, then I've done no harm!




So, this is what my eyes have looked like for the last 5 days. It seems I have had some sinus problems, and the drainage is coming out of my tear ducts, but I'm feeling better each day.


This cartoon was made about mine and my husband's relationship...


But I have to get well... Tomorrow is a big day! I'm taking my daughter to Houston for a soccer game. We are in the middle of the President's Cup tournament. In our age division, the top two teams go to the finals bracket to play the Western Disctrict of Texas. Right now we are in 2nd place, and the big game for us is tomorrow. Then I get to rush back home to make my son's baseball game. After that, the family is going to Crockett Street to watch Zona Jones, Tracy Byrd, and Mark Chesnutt. No, I'm not done yet! Then we are going to a crawfish boil with Mark's family. My girl's think they are so cool for getting to hang out with someone famous, and they each get to bring a friend. Gosh, I think I'd hate that aspect of fame. How do you know when people are your "real" friends? ...

Still Waiting...

I haven't been keeping up with posting because I've just been waiting for some kind of news. I did learn yesterday from our International Coordinator Grace that all the waiting children's paper work would be sent back with one of our travelers. Ethiopia is getting hit pretty hard right now. They've been experiencing a drought, and their electrical power is run by hydropower, so the scoop is that there is no electricity on Mondays and Thurdays! Yikes! We have three families in Ethiopia right now! I bet that adds to the shock value. One of our travelers hasn't received her I-171-H yet which furthers any anxiety. I keep praying for her because I know how frustrated she must be with the system. She's tried everything, but it looks like it has only pissed USCIS off. I wish they'd realize that it's a child they're hurting, and most of us adoptive parents do not have unlimited funds!

Many of my fellow Hope families received snipets of info on their children from our travelers. I had to say I cried yesterday because I hadn't heard anything yet. Heck, I am crying while writing this post! You see,I had sent a photo book for Abeti, and I so wanted to hear how he reacted to seeing his new family for the first time. I do know that I'll probably hear something when the families return. They are probably overwhelmed with an unfamiliar country and new children, and we did have some good news with Hope yesterday. Four familes passed court the first time! Our next two travel families leave this weekend. I sent a package to Abeti. I sent an A&M hat and shirt, as well as some jean shorts. I also threw in a toy truck and some of my kid's favorite candy. My soccer girl Curran was thrilled with the hat! She attends A&M soccer camp in July again. Hey, whatever will keep her focused on her education!

Reasons Why

When people ask, "Why Ethiopia?", I don't usually have a very concrete answer about what led me to this country. I can't really say God has ever spoken to me, and I sure hope He is humerous. I can see Him stating the many times He has spoken to me, and I never knew... I do want to share a video I watched on a fellow Texan's blog. (You have to stop the Ipod on the right fromplaying in order to watch the video.) Our family loves American Idol, and I actually watched this video when it aired last year which was before we started this process. Maybe that was a way God helped me to choose Ethiopia, and I was just now reminded of it when I read Emily's blog... Thanks Emily even though we don't know each other....

Another language

It just hit me! My new son probably doesn't even speak Amharic. Since he was born in Sheshemene, he probably speaks Oromo. Help! How scary is that for him because he is now in Addis Ababa at Hope's temporary home, and they speak Amharic! What a life this child has experienced! I only hope the love we have in our family can overcome the difficulties.

Odyssey of the Mind

Today my son competed in the State Odyssey of the Mind competition. Odyssey of the Mind, often called OM is a creative problem-solving competition involving students from kindergarten through college. Team members work together at length to solve a predefined problem (the Long Term problem); and present their solution to the problem at a competition. They must also generate spontaneous answers to a problem they have not seen before; this is the spontaneous part of the competition. The Odyssey of the Mind program was started in 1978 by Dr. C. Samuel Micklus, a professor at Rowan University in New Jersey. That first competition, known as "Olympics of the Mind", involved teams from 28 New Jersey schools. The program is now international, with teams from Australia, Belgium, Canada, China, Germany, Hong Kong, Hungary, India, Italy, Japan, Kazakhstan, Lithuania, Luxembourg, Malaysia, Mexico, Moldova, the Netherlands, Poland, Russia, Siberia, Singapore, Slovakia, the United Kingdom, Uzbekistan, and West Africa regularly competing in addition to teams from the United States. Odyssey of the Mind teams are divided into four divisions. My son is in Division I which is for students in grades K-5 for the U.S. teams and members less than 12 years of age for international teams.
Skylar's team worked hard....Go Sky!

Scrapbooking

I decided to scrapbook a photo album for Abeti of our family and our house so he will have something to look at in the months ahead. I spent the past couple of nights waking up at 2 AM stressing about how to put it together. I am SO not creative! But today I decided to just do it! I even tried my hand at writing Amharic. I thought that it would help him know what those pictures represent. Amharic is not an easy language! It looks like Hebrew. I sure hope I didn't write something offensive! It took me all day, but I finally finished it and sent it to Rebecca Brutto who is leaving soon to pick up her daughter. It's such a nice thing that other parents that travel before you take pictures and video of your kids, and take gifts too! What a blessing our "Hope" family is!